I'm comfortable with who I am and I'm hoping to meet a woman who knows who she is. Tell me what drives you. What are your passions? What are the qualities you respect in others?
For me, I'm lively, caring, and positive. I'm looking for someone who feels comfortable being honest with me and, more importantly, with herself. Someone who has a clear vision of who she is and how her personality works with other types of people. We can't all be everyone's companion but in the right combination, two people together can be so much more than just the sum of their parts.
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1 or 2 paragraphs about specifics, a few goals, a couple of wants. Keep it entirely positive.
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Do I sound like someone you'd like to get to know more? I'd love to speak with you, hear your stories, and learn a little more about you. Will you share some of who you are with me?